Comics can be alright, but even there it can be annoying to scroll around the page. I have always enjoyed transformation sequences, but I've never really been a fan of looking at huge spritesheets. This includes Breast Expansion, TF/TG and TF/Ment. Of course, you need a doctor to get those-one who cares enough to prescribe them.Contains sexual content with focus on Bimbofication. I am not sure what meds you’re taking, but some classes of drugs are less likely to cause erectile dysfunction, and if nothing else, you could look into drugs that specifically treat E.D., many of which are safe to be taken with high blood pressure meds. You might look into visiting a urologist speficially for this issue. I don’t know what is driving your doctor’s apathy regarding your E.D., but let me assure you: #NotAllDoctors. This one’s song goes, “Find a new doctor.” Catchy tune! You should be treated by someone who cares about your entire health, including the sexual facet of it. is a known side effect of drugs that treat high blood pressure-and yet it’s still playing the role of canary. I’ve seen erectile dysfunction referred to as a “canary in a coal mine” for its ability to signal underlying conditions (such as diabetes) that have gone undetected. Is there anything I can do to help bring my erections back to their previous state? Any preparation or practice? I never had this problem before this medication. I’ve brought this up to my doctor, and he dismissed me, saying he did not want to change my medication and offered no other solutions. I can get hard masturbating, but not as consistently or fully as before. Although I am happy (and excited!) to do whatever I can for my girlfriend regardless, both of us miss the consistent, rock hard P-I-V. Sometimes it’ll return hard enough for intercourse, sometimes it won’t. Pausing things with my girlfriend even briefly to pop on a condom is enough to let it go softish and not able to get fully hard again. Unfortunately, it’s made it more difficult to get an erection, and nearly impossible to maintain one like I used to during sex. My doctor gave me a common drug to treat it, and my blood pressure has come down to normal levels. I was recently diagnosed with dangerously high blood pressure, like the doctor wanted to hospitalize me for fear of a stroke. His attempting to improve himself as well would be a great sign of engagement. The more of a collaborative process you can make this-by working out together, by devising strategies for peaceful communication unencumbered by anxiety-the better. That’s just introducing a disparity in power. While I do think the exchange you had that prompted this letter, painful as it was, was refreshingly frank, it would be bad for your relationship to adopt a dynamic in which you’re trying to perfect yourself just for your boyfriend’s sake while he does nothing, as his perfection is assumed. We all have things we could improve about ourselves-you have an advantage for actually attempting to do so. You need not be at the mercy of your own moods.īut you needn’t be at his mercy either. Give yourself time to craft your communication. If you are the kind of person who can’t quite control the harsh things that come flying out of your mouth, consciously take a few beats before saying anything when you’re feeling anxious and heated. Meditation and working out are great stress relievers. I hope that you’re losing weight for yourself, not him-attempting to please someone with such stringent restrictions is almost always a losing game.Īs far as your self-professed bitchiness is concerned, you can certainly attempt to work on that as well. That he’d have such a visceral reaction to a fairly negligible amount of weight gain suggests he is not very realistic about the normal ways bodies can change. Twenty pounds, though, is not a distorting amount of weight to put on most body types. Weight gain is a touchy subject, and even when true, it’s shitty to accept that it could affect attraction in one’s relationship. That said, you’d expect a little bit more leeway from a committed long-term partner. Kindness, in those instances, can be its own form of cruelty. That’s a common scenario, as partners withhold information for the sake of politeness. At least you aren’t living in torturous limbo, knowing that something is up with him but not being told what. In this case, he only confirmed a couple things you suspected yourself, but it still stings. Honesty is sometimes brutal, which is why you’re hurt. I’ll start with the good news: You have a partner who is honest with you.